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I’ve been wondering a small bit about the irrational fear evoked by spiders and snakes. Some people say there may be an evolutionary component to it as a few of these creatures can potentially be deadly. But our visceral response to them seems to be far more excessive than the actual threat they would have posed throughout human evolution.

 

Humans obviously have a limited capacity to empathise with animals. We can anthropomorphise our pets and we might admire animals in the zoo. But as the philosopher Thomas Nagal pointed out, “What is it Like to be a Bat?”. In other words what is the sentience of these creatures like?

 

They can’t just be inanimate robots as they display complex behaviour. Perhaps they live in a barely self-aware oneiric sort of existence that will be forever unknown to us. Some exotic creatures may possess a mind so “alien” to ours that it becomes repulsive when we try to project a degree of consciousness onto it. So might the creepiness of spiders and snakes be more of our instinctive reaction to their unfathomable psychology rather than the actual biology of them?

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I have never had that fear of spiders or snakes.  My wife is deathly afraid of snakes.  My phobia is sharks which my wife thinks is a riot.  Every time I'm in the ocean I just know a shark is homing in on me, and she just rolls her eyes and swims out to deeper water [shudder].

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8 hours ago, Bufofrog said:

I have never had that fear of spiders or snakes.  My wife is deathly afraid of snakes.  My phobia is sharks which my wife thinks is a riot.  Every time I'm in the ocean I just know a shark is homing in on me, and she just rolls her eyes and swims out to deeper water [shudder].

 Once I'd handled a couple of snakes (garters)I felt more empathetic towards them. I found myself near a poisonous adder not long ago - about 3m away - and just stood still and let it slide away. First one I'd seen in nearly 60 years.

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My family was on a walk through the woods with another family when I spotted a copperhead (a type of pit viper) so I caught it and showed the kids how to identify pit viper and the dangers of being bitten.  I opened its mouth and showed them it's fangs which made a scary impression on them.  When my wife caught up to us and saw the snake she was not amused, the other family and all the kids were quite interested though.

Snakes are surprisingly docile creatures.  If you gently hold a 5 ft long black snake (a non poisonous snake) by the head for a few minutes it will usually relax and it will not try to bite you anymore and will crawl around on you like pet.  I can't think of another animal you could do that with.  I would never attempt to pick up even a mouse without protective gloves

 

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When I unexpectedly see a snake I kind of freak out for a moment. In an instant my heart rate and breathing spike, I can feel the adrenaline surge, and I immediately start looking around for all his snake buddies who must be waiting in ambush. One time my wife was concerned as I stormed into the house cursing a blue streak and locked the door behind me. For the next couple of days every stick, crack in the concrete, or elongated shadow makes me think of snakes. I'll often have bad dreams afterwards.

I am fully aware this is irrational but I have no control over it. This near instant reaction I have to snakes makes it feel like it is much more visceral than intellectual.

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18 minutes ago, zapatos said:

When I unexpectedly see a snake I kind of freak out for a moment. In an instant my heart rate and breathing spike, I can feel the adrenaline surge, and I immediately start looking around for all his snake buddies who must be waiting in ambush. One time my wife was concerned as I stormed into the house cursing a blue streak and locked the door behind me. For the next couple of days every stick, crack in the concrete, or elongated shadow makes me think of snakes. I'll often have bad dreams afterwards.

I am fully aware this is irrational but I have no control over it. This near instant reaction I have to snakes makes it feel like it is much more visceral than intellectual.

See if you can find someone with a safe one to show you. Keep looking at pictures first in increasing doses until you feel ok, then videos. 

Spiders, I just let them get on with it and move them out the way if they are heading my way in the house.

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37 minutes ago, StringJunky said:

See if you can find someone with a safe one to show you. Keep looking at pictures first in increasing doses until you feel ok, then videos. 

Spiders, I just let them get on with it and move them out the way if they are heading my way in the house.

While I don't care for spiders they don't really bother me any more than big centipedes or other creepy looking creatures.

Many years ago I let my boys both have aquariums with snakes. I was fine looking at them in the tank, and when the boys handled them it was a little creepy but no big deal. Then they talked me into holding their corn snake (see stock image below). It was a bit tense but fine while it was just wrapped around my fingers, but then it looked me in the eye and started moving toward my face. Boom! I couldn't get that thing out of my hand fast enough. 

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8 minutes ago, zapatos said:

While I don't care for spiders they don't really bother me any more than big centipedes or other creepy looking creatures.

Many years ago I let my boys both have aquariums with snakes. I was fine looking at them in the tank, and when the boys handled them it was a little creepy but no big deal. Then they talked me into holding their corn snake (see stock image below). It was a bit tense but fine while it was just wrapped around my fingers, but then it looked me in the eye and started moving toward my face. Boom! I couldn't get that thing out of my hand fast enough. 

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You are not too bad then.

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I have arachnaphobia sufficiently advanced that I have to take time to still my pulse. Pretty sure this started at 4 or 5 years old with my grandfather cutting dead leaves/branches off banana trees. A huge Huntsmen (large friendly harmless useful spider, large being easy 8 inches across) leap from a cut branch onto my head. More recently coming face to face with a funnel web (about the size of the first joint on your thumb and VERY venomous) and this was NOT amuzing.   Snakes are a different matter. I was introduced young to very poisonous snakes - first recollection is catching a death adder (venomous stubby fat 2 foot long maybe) , but also the common brown (6 foot, skinny, fast, way aggressive, leave alone). I like snakes. I got a little agitated when my wife nearly walked on top of a red belly black (these guys eat browns) in a state forest a couple of years ago, but as long as we avoided it once seen all good. Get the camera out.

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9 hours ago, druS said:

A huge Huntsmen (large friendly harmless useful spider, large being easy 8 inches across) leap from a cut branch onto my head.

Yep, that would do it for me too! 🐍

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