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Merry Christmas... and a big kiss to you all.

 

There was talk of mistletoe at work today and how we do not see any in the workplace anymore. What with todays harassment laws, the potential for poisoning yourself and work colleges, the stigma about being seen as a dirty old man chasing women around the factory, labs and offices trying to get off with them, Is it really worth all of the snogging?

 

 

Personally I think the poisonous part is exaggerated and from a very small amount of reading it seems not all species are and those that are are mild. However, I do not want to be seen chasing girls all over the factory looking for snogs as, fun as it sounds, I just do not think it is very professional. Bah! and Humbug!

 

Merry Christmas anyway!

 

So - my questions: Men - what are your thoughts? Do you feel the same way? Ladies - what do you think when someone you think is a bit creepy comes slithering up to your work desk with mistletoe? Does it creep you out? Are you free with your kisses regardless of the comeliness of the bearer of said plant? Is it just a bit of fun?

 

Personally I am pretty free with my kisses... I just feel awkward with the mistletoe thing.

 

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My view is it's bad enough when it's hanging up, but to carry it to someone's desk is always going to be creepy and inappropriate!

My view is that it's not worth it. In a party situation, there are about 20 people you don't want to kiss to every one that you would like to kiss. On balance, it's better to avoid it altogether.

Selling tree parasites makes a great fundraiser though.

 

I don't know about work, but at one's home should be fine.

It seems that tying mistletoe to your belt buckle is considered inappropriate.
Merry Xmas everyone.

Generally speaking I think something like mistletoe at work is to be avoided. Not worth the risk.

 

However, depending on who benefits and the environment, it can be a good thing.

 

I always told my boys (both good looking, personable lads) that they should always make a point to pay attention to, and flirt with, girls who were, um, less popular. Costs them nothing, and just may brighten someone's day.

 

So, if you are chasing girls with the mistletoe because you haven't kissed an 18 year old in 40 years (back when you were 18), don't do it.

But, if you believe a subtle invitation at a party will be appreciated, go for it.