A spoiled child suffers as much as an abused child: for instance Moses was raised by a rich family, much like Buddha, and much like Buddha he buggered off for a while, only to return with wisdom.
Ask yourselves this; given the miraculous and well celebrated birth, why did he disappear for 32ish years?
I suspect he was from a broken home, virgin birth be bolloxed, she got knocked up and lucked out because Joseph fancied her. So they buggered off because of the local gossip, or a roman census if you insist. Step dad Jo didn't like Jesus very much and mum needed him enough to turn a blind eye, Jesus spends the next twentyish years wallowing in self pity, then he happens to meet 'John the baptist' who said something that sparked his understanding, but only 40 days in the dessert sparked his enlightenment.