Why do men like lesbians so much?
Posted 3 April 2010 - 09:02 PM
Think about it: Why do men enjoy homosexual porn of the opposite sex, but that same fetish is not near as widespread among women? How, exactly, does testosterone accomplish one thing, but estrogen does not accomplish the exact opposite?
Most guys give the reason of "twice the fun" for why they like lesbians, but that logic does not work with women liking gay men.
It is the job of scientists to inquire as to why lesbians are so popular among the sex they aren't attracted to, yet that does not work vice versa.
Why is that?
Posted 3 April 2010 - 10:51 PM
But if there is a biological component, the "twice the fun" response would have some reasoning behind it when you consider it's the male of the species who is typically more polygomous/permiscuous. So it might be that lesbians - or rather bisexual women - would be more open to a polygomous relationship than heterosexual ones.
Posted 3 April 2010 - 11:09 PM
Furthermore, I've read and heard that pornography attempts to remove the face of the male most of the time in order to give the male viewer the impression that he is the one in the scene with the woman.
This would more than likely be better in the psychology board.
Posted 4 April 2010 - 03:37 AM
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Posted 27 August 2010 - 01:34 AM
Posted 27 August 2010 - 09:28 AM
Just my 2 cents.
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Posted 10 November 2011 - 09:52 PM
Men are more visual; women, not as much. Women prefer emotions and imagination. Thus there is more literary erotica geared to women.
Posted Yesterday, 09:04 PM
As studies have shown, many homophobic men are secretly experiencing their own homosexual desires, and they attempt to hide it behind a wall of antipathy for gay men.
Being a man who, at 18, expressed many homophobic opinions, it ought not surprise anyone that at 30 I came out as gay. Coinciding with my homophobic rants in my youth was the opinion that lesbians were hot, and me and my other friends routinely talked about the desire to have a sexual experiences with a couple of females; the idea of two guys and a girl was always castigated as "gay".
The more I've learned about psychology and human sexuality, the more I've come to the conclusion that men, in particular, young men, use the fantasy of two lesbians in order to avoid the hidden fascination they have with other men. In short, they're projecting their own deep seated fears about sexuality onto women as a defensive mechanism.
Posted Yesterday, 09:08 PM
They are both present in both sexes and do not do the same thing (or correspondingly opposite thing) for each sex.
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