No, that's not what I'm saying, and strawmen usually are nonsense.
I'm saying that if an apple ripens in 5 days, and you went away on a trip at sufficient velocity to account for 5 days in time to the apple, but the trip was very short for you (say one hour), when you came back the apple would be ripe. By your watch, one hour had passed. By the apple, and the clock sitting next to it, 5 days had passed. The timekeepers in the two frames will not agree, even though when they are side-by-side, the second hands are observed to tick at the same rate, and they were reading the same value at the beginning of the trip.