GutZ Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 Women are pathetic.... "I don't know why I fall for losers" then "I know he drinks heavily, but I feel bad for him" It's not going to work get over it! (sorry I am usually sympathic but that doesn't work, they just go back to making stupid decisions) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iNow Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 That's a pretty bad generalization there, Gutz. Hardly all women are like that, but I'm sympathetic to possibility that this is all you've experienced in your own life. sugashana - If you are being sincere with your posts, then I truly wish you and the guy the best of luck and hope that you manage to figure things out without too much strain or stress. However, to be perfectly frank, this whole thread is really rather silly. I notice you've not posted anywhere else in this community, nor asked any actual science based questions. I encourage you to do so, as this whole "I'm dating a chemist" thing was really quite lame from the start, and is even more so now. Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GutZ Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 (edited) Sorry Inow, you are correct. I know my generalizations go too far...it happens quite a bit. I've always been that person that women seem comfortable talking about their problem with...and I always get the same thing...it get's trying and it annoys me because they basically use me to get their justification for there actions. "My boyfriends an asshole he plays video games and ignores me" me - so dump him "Oh but he can be nice sometimes..." me - I am going to strangle you *btw warning 95 % of what I say is light humour, Don't take it seriously. Look what group I'm in...I frigging created it that's how loopy I AM. > join us! Edited April 12, 2009 by GutZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 12, 2009 Author Share Posted April 12, 2009 FFS! Look, I post on other boards. I'm more of the fitness type so I post on fitness and nutrition boards. I was just looking for some insight from a different crowd, I'm sorry if you think it's lame. If you think that, then don't respond. He's a kind genuine man. He made 2 undetectable designer steroids for BALCO before they went down in 2007. He did his time and now he has a legitimate company and works very hard at designing supplements. He drinks because it's how he manages his stress (not saying it's right or wrong) but he's still being harassed and investigated by the DEA. For some reason they have picked him out and want to make an example of him. They recently raided his lab and seized everything. At any time they can find some sort of bullshit reason to lock him up. They accuse him of spiking supplements with andro.(the once legal steroid Mark McGuire used to hit all those home runs) Obviously if it were true he'd be back in prison. I asked him to stop drinking and he did. Then we broke up and he started again. Did you know that congress spent more time debating steroids in 2007 than they did on Health Care, and why the levies broke in New Orleans. I love him, he'd do anything for me and I'd stand by him. My only dilemma or the thing that I question is if I'm ready to settle down. And you all are right that's my decision to make. So don't hate if I'm not posting about wtf mitochondria's role is in mRNA. Shit, there's more to life than that. Anyway, that's my rant. I just thought I'd share. I'm torn because I date dickheads normally with no formal education so I'm trying to give him a shot... Merged post follows: Consecutive posts merged1. If youve been around any girls in your life, you know as well as I do that they dont go aruond talking about how hot they are and what big boobs they have...even the pretty stupid ones arent that stupid. 2. Its just weird to go along with it, thats why. Not true. It's called confidence sir Merged post follows: Consecutive posts mergedWhen I start school again this fall maybe I'll throw up a couple problems and look for some help;) Merged post follows: Consecutive posts mergedWomen are pathetic...."I don't know why I fall for losers" then "I know he drinks heavily, but I feel bad for him" It's not going to work get over it! (sorry I am usually sympathic but that doesn't work, they just go back to making stupid decisions) You must be like 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 12, 2009 Author Share Posted April 12, 2009 I'm not fake btw... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 So, he scared me away, it's done, its over... Walkin away, we're just friends. Chapter two.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GutZ Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 (edited) I am 25 actually, a year younger than you, but obviously more experienced with good relationships because I don't take crap from people. I've had a tough life, I've gone through hell most people would be scarred for life. I am being harsh because that's what you need. READ what you are typing...SERIOUSLY I'll point out the main points. You just met the man. He's twice your age, he's the first guy to really treat you nicely in a while, something you want, and you want that to be enough...which it is obvious is not or you wouldn't keep coming back now would you? He has a drinking problem, everyone has problems, he's asked you to marry him...out of love or desperation. Define love, because I certainly don't see it as you state it. Two people who have been through thick and thin for along time together and still can say that they truely love each other...Thats LOVE. I am giving you high-school advice because you have puppy love my dear. Your inference is mis-placed. I am just good at judging people so I give them advice as I see it. You don't have to take it! I don't think you possible have the ability to see through this rationally so I am giving it to you as straight as possible. Sorry! I wish i could say it nicer, but nicer isn not going to help him or you.I generally care because you could both be ruining your lives...You need to really look at your situation for what it is...if you do, you might find that you are coming to the same conclusion I am. Edited April 13, 2009 by GutZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 I am 25 actually, a year younger than you, but obviously more experienced with good relationships because I don't take crap from people. I've had a tough life, I've gone through hell most people would be scarred for life. I am being harsh because that's what you need. READ what you are typing...SERIOUSLY I'll point out the main points. You just met the man. He's twice your age, he's the first guy to really treat you nicely in a while, something you want, and you want that to be enough...which it is obvious is not or you wouldn't keep coming back now would you? He has a drinking problem, everyone has problems, he's asked you to marry him...out of love or desperation. Define love, because I certainly don't see it as you state it. Two people who have been through thick and thin for along time together and still can say that they truely love each other...Thats LOVE. I am giving you high-school advice because you have puppy love my dear. Your inference is mis-placed. I am just good at judging people so I give them advice as I see it. You don't have to take it! I don't think you possible have the ability to see through this rationally so I am giving it to you as straight as possible. Sorry! I wish i could say it nicer, but nicer isn not going to help him or you.I generally care because you could both be ruining your lives...You need to really look at your situation for what it is...if you do, you might find that you are coming to the same conclusion I am. Thank you for your response. Incase you missed it, I walked away. The only thing you're off base with is, I don't love him. Merged post follows: Consecutive posts mergedI love him as a person, but not the kind of love that you need to be with someone. Does that make sense? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaeroll Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 I'm not fake btw... This demands one response and one response only: Tits or GTFO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GutZ Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 I love him as a person, but not the kind of love that you need to be with someone. Does that make sense? I am glad you see that you know what to Look for now in guy...you have to be tough the first while in a relationship and be skeptical. It seem harsh but, people get side tracked by emotion, and don't look at things clearly. Love will come naturally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sisyphus Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 ....why is this thread still going on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaeroll Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 ....why is this thread still going on? You're the mod. Use your stick of moderation to put an end to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 Wow, you guys are assholes GTFO! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ParanoiA Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Let the record show, that I'm not actually an asshole here...on this one... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 Well, relationship terminated... Lock thread;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ParanoiA Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Maybe we could instead talk about my relationship with my wife. You see, I kind of love her, but in a she-has-my-kids kinda way, but i'm just not sure if it's gonna work out. I mean 17 years and her ass just keeps gettin bigger. She asked for a boob job once and I told her to rub a piece of toilet paper between her breasts several times a day, since it worked wonders on her ass. But then, she does really nice things, like picking the w's out of my m&m's...I just don't know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 smart ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iNow Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Well, to be fair to Para, his frustration is justified. After all, his wife DOES watch Ghost Hunters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaeroll Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Maybe we could instead talk about my relationship with my wife. You see, I kind of love her, but in a she-has-my-kids kinda way, but i'm just not sure if it's gonna work out. I mean 17 years and her ass just keeps gettin bigger. She asked for a boob job once and I told her to rub a piece of toilet paper between her breasts several times a day, since it worked wonders on her ass. But then, she does really nice things, like picking the w's out of my m&m's...I just don't know Did I ever tell you I love you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 And we're back together... LMAO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iNow Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Out of curiosity, do you define "long future together" in hours, days, or weeks? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 Good question... Hmmm... Well, I go out to visit him in a couple weeks so it will kind of be the make or break. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iNow Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Sounds like a future partner in the "just friends" category, if you ask me. Good luck with it all, however it goes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugashana Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cap'n Refsmmat Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 I find the safe strategy is to simply be good friends with a person for a while first. Gives you plenty of time to judge. Of course, in my case, it gives other people plenty of time to think you're in a relationship you're not really in, but that's high school gossip for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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