A higher dimensional space always intersects a lower dimensional space in the lower dimension.
For example.
A two dimensional plane intersects a one dimensional space in a line ( one dimensional ).
A three dimensional space intersects a two dimensional space in an area.
( take a 3D pencil and punch it through a 2D sheet of paper, the intersection is a circular area; easiest to visualize )
Similarly, if we are 4D in extent, then we intersect the 3D 'now' in a volume.
It is this volume that you consider our 'selves' ( not the points on your 2D graph and videos ), but actually we extend in the time dimension along a world line.
Why would you vacate a previous time co-ordinate; you were 'there' ( then ? ), and we both remember it.
And we also occupy future positions along the world line, according to the Block Universe.
Our 'now' cross section just hasn't gotten 'there' ( then ? ) yet.
I really can't explain it any better than that