12 hours ago, LuckyR said:

Well in general men don't

It's rare that anything meaningful comes after these five words.

3 hours ago, TheVat said:

... Naked people look like naked people, AFAICT, they don't come with tattoos designating sexual orientation.

You're not going to the right clubs

3 hours ago, TheVat said:

Can't decipher what you mean by "heterosexual appearing," or "appeared to be lesbian,” here. Naked people look like naked people, AFAICT, they don't come with tattoos designating sexual orientation.

And in fact there are quite a lot, according to my Gen Z son, who are voile et vapeur so resist any such simple pigeonholing.

20 hours ago, sethoflagos said:

You're not going to the right clubs

Har!

20 hours ago, exchemist said:

And in fact there are quite a lot, according to my Gen Z son, who are voile et vapeur so resist any such simple pigeonholing.

Mais oui. Pigeonholing cornholing is not wise.

On 6/29/2025 at 9:30 AM, TheVat said:

Can't decipher what you mean by "heterosexual appearing," or "appeared to be lesbian,” here. Naked people look like naked people, AFAICT, they don't come with tattoos designating sexual orientation.

Are you saying that "gaydar" is a myth? But seriously, of course I'm referring to stereotypes. Essentially all entertainment media deals in stereotypes, regardless of their accuracy or inaccuracy. I am not aware of lesbian sex visual media made for consumption by heterosexual men, that uses stereotypical lesbian appearing model/actors. Perhaps your experience can prove me wrong. You do agree that stereotypes exist, right?

On 6/29/2025 at 11:08 AM, Phi for All said:

It's rare that anything meaningful comes after these five words.

Thank you for your thoughtful addition to the discussion, your comment reveals much.

Edited July 10Jul 10 by LuckyR

6 hours ago, LuckyR said:

You do agree that stereotypes exist, right?

Yes indeed, it's mostly about a cultural trend that evolves through time... 😉

On 7/10/2025 at 12:16 AM, LuckyR said:

Thank you for your thoughtful addition to the discussion, your comment reveals much.

You're so welcome, I hope it revealed to you my attitudes towards generalizing me and deciding for me what I like.

7 hours ago, Phi for All said:

You're so welcome, I hope it revealed to you my attitudes towards generalizing me and deciding for me what I like.

Ah so, you took my observations (about the marketing of media) personally. I get it. Now it all falls into place.

Good to know. I'll file that away for the future.