alice

Will we still evolve years from now?

Turn it into a career.

Yep. I'm currenly looking for a part time job that has something to do with the pc. But I'm not sure if I can get one. Hmm...career, eh? I actually took Information Technology for college. BTW, which course is easier, Computer Science, or Information Technology?

Yesterday was my last day at school. I got a few people to sign my yearbook, but nobody asked me to sign theirs. I've decided to write a letter to my best friend, and send it through the mail. I asked her if she just wanted to hang out as friends over the summer, and I told her that I didn't want to lose her as my friend. I'm not sure if she will reply or not.

You'll know soon enough.

Hey! It's good that you had the courage to send her an e-mail. Good job! Yeey! You finally made a step! I'm glad you did it. Great decision. I do hope she'll reply and hang out with you.

The best of luck, herme!

Sorry for all the crap I wrote. I'm the worst person at giving advice...but somehow, people always ask advice from me...not always...but almost always...hmmm...they must be stupid.

If you have finally found a topic you like...hit the books and read on it. You have to know everything that there is to know about your study. Judges ask the hardest questions, you better be prepared to explain your study. And make sure you make a good paper..a really good paper, one that's strong and holds all the necessary information. Because it's what made my past project a failure. I had to almost start over. My paper was weak and had a lot of holes in it...and it was not only the paper..my study was weak as well. So take it from experience...you have to know everything about your study or else...the judge will take you down. You don't want to say the million "If only...I shoud've..."'s....take care and I hope you succeed! May the good wind blow your way!

Yes' date=' but we are going at different times. I'll already be home by the time she gets to college.

 

Even though she has been sitting next to me while I made many of the posts in this thread, I don't think she's actually read anything I typed. She's sitting next to me right now, but she's playing a computer game and we are talking about English class. So, hopefully she doesn't know how stupid I can be.[/quote']

 

Then stay in school if you are really serious of meeting her. No one is perfect, herme. Can't you get that in your head? No one is PERFECT! All right...fine...she may be close to perfect...but she may also be the girl for someone else, not you. So get over it and start living your life. You do need to have a life to get the girl, you know. You said it yourself, you're a loser, so stop being one and start acting like a real person! If you intend to get her attention, then be the best that you can be. Be the best friend and be the best person. You can never be perfect, but you can be the best.

Computer addict, huh? I plead...GUILTY! I am hooked to the computer but not as much as how hooked I am to the television. I can't live without it! How do I cure this addiction? Any suggestions?

Yes it is. And can you blame her? Ask yourself this, what kind of woman wants a "man" who whines about his lackluster love life to strangers on the Internet?

You've got a whole lot of point there pcorbett.

I got into thinking herme...if you can't change yourself for the better, then stay the same. People will just have to accept you for who you are. No matter how weird you are or how negative you are. I guess that's just the way you are.

Sorry man, I've run out of hope for you. You always seem to contradict every advice we give you. Maybe contradict is not the word...hmm..you always refute everything we say to you...a line from sabbath. Yep! That is true. Is it always opposite day for you? Or friday the 13th? Why are you so depressed over a girl? I really don't see the point why you have to fret about one girl who you are not even sure if she likes you.

I'm sorry for all that. I just can't help but say it. This thread has pissed me off more than once. Your personality is a never ending intertwining ball of string. What am I saying? I don't make sense at all.

I cant speak for how much help this has given herme3' date=' but i know that this thread (whenever ive been able to keep up with it) has really helped me in understanding some situations and how i should approach things to better increase my chances of a date (example, im now going to try to interact with more people, instead of shutting myself off from people outside my 'best friend' zone like i usually do.)

 

so all in all, thanks guys for helpin Herme3, cos the result is that u have helped more than just one person XD

 

thankies

 

Tash.[/quote']

 

I'm glad to have done so! Hmm...have I helped herme? Maybe.

Are you hitting on me:eek:

LOL. Sorry you interpreted it that way. But I am not interested in guys. I was only stating what I thought of you. So...whatever.

Actually, I already have her phone number. However, she doesn't know that I have it. What if she doesn't want me to have it? Would she become angry if I called her?

Of course not. Unless she hates you.

I've seen the yearbooks of some of her closest friends, and she normally writes long messages in the yearbooks of the people she cares most about. I've seen her take up entire pages in a yearbook. I think it would seem more friendly if I wrote a long message in her yearbook.

Well, if she doesn't like you and is only your friend because of the knowledge that you shared with her...she's most likely to rip that page off. But if she does like you...then maybe it's ok. Keep it short, though. Short is better. And keep it brief.

If you study in the same college, then the chance of you seeing her is actually greater than not. You study in the same college for crying out loud. You will, whatever time of day it is, bump into each other. Maybe in the library? If you really want to see her, then be in the campus before her classes. Get the schedule of her classes and watch out for her. But if you'll do that...a stalker you will become.

I don't really have the best advice right now. I'm so tired. I just timed out from work. Phew! 8 hours of encoding is exhausting.

Hope you'll be okay!

Everything will turn out fine! Good luck!

How much are they, Skye? I'd like one! Hehe...^.^

Two days? Now, isn't that dandy? Don't you worry...everything will be all right. Just hang in there. You'll get her, tiger!

Prom, huh? I can still remember the two worst days of my life. I hate proms. But I had no choice. It was a requirement. So that we won't try to make up an excuse like we were sick or something, our teachers decided to make it a project. It was graded. How great is that? And in a school where grades are our weakness, we all went despite our hatred for it. Well, maybe not all of us. Almost all the girls in our class, err, all the girls in our class, except for me, were all excited about it. They actually planned everything from the start of the year. They'd start dieting to make their gowns fit. They designed their gowns. Planned their look, their hair, the perfume they would wear. And all the girly things. I just hate the prom. It's a complete waste of time. I missed my favorite show because of that stupid event! But what the heck, it was, though i hate to admit it, it was fun. The first one was, but the second one, it sucked. But oh well...sh*t happens. So don't be sad, you did not miss out on anything. The girls looked like girls and the boys, they looked like themselves, only neater.

That's what we all told you. So it's all up to you. It's your life, not ours. Make the right decision. And when you do, get moving and do it!

LazerFazer is right herme. It never hurts to try.

A letter might be good. Try it out. Just be sure to write the right words...and make sure that it won't sound WEIRD. Write it with all your heart. (I'm creeping myself out.)

TTFN

Cloud sure is funny. I don't know why, but I find him funny.

So...getting back to herme and his problem. Haven't you done anything about it yet? I think an advice would be good for you, but sadly, through all the whines I've posted here, I've run out of 'em.

Or maybe I'm tired of helping you out...but that's just today. I'll think of something.

Maybe it's hard for me to give you the best advice because I for one am studying in a separate college. Meaning, that me seeing my high school friends is very unlikely. And I am not sad at all. I'd like to experience an alone time for a while. It's the only chance I have of finally meeting my true self. So I'm liking the idea.

As for you...follow cloud's advice. He gave a good one.

Why don't we gather maybe about 10 people in random. Of course, we have to make sure that they are all strangers to each one of them. We'll grab a person, let thim in a room and see who sniffs. Then, after a few hours or minutes, we'll give them a questionare to answer. Sort of like what the MythBusters did when they wanted to see if yawing was contagious or not.

Well, herme..if she's not the one for you...then she's not. You can't do anything about it. There is a girl for you somewhere...and she'll like you for who you really are...no matter how crazy people think of you...or how weird you are...that's just the way it goes.

I've run out of advice.

Maybe we sniff because we want to smell strangers. The smell of a person may sometimes show what they are like.

I guess she doesn't want to e-mail you.

Oh men...alice I fear you've been watching too many reality tv shows.

 

Stop watching Queer Eye for the Straight Guy!

 

Stop watching Ambush Makeover!

 

Stop watching Project Runway!

 

Stop watching America's Next Top Model!

 

I tell you' date=' STOP!!!

 

It shows!

 

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Oh darn! I've been exposed! You should've just kept quiet about it sabbath. You can't stop me from watching it, you know. It's actually quite fun to watch. Seeing people with their out of this world sense of style. And of course, there is nothing better on tv...I haven't seen any of my favourite cooking shows...so those makeover shows are my only choice.

 

What has America's Top Model got to do with makeovers? And Project Runway? Do I speak model now? Or designer?

 

Fine. I'll quit. I have to study in advance anyway. But I won't stop my anime watching. I'll keep a schedule, don't worry.

I haven't noticed anyone sniff for the past few days. So I never really got around to asking them the reason behind the sniff. But I have been sniffing a lot lately...my sinuses are acting up again...I think.

How to ask for her help? Easy! "Hey (her name)! I..uhm...I need your help...you see...you're a girl and all...and uhm...I trust you...so uhm...can you...uhm...somehow, give me a make over?" Trust me, it won't sound weird. If she is the girly girl that she is, then she'll probably jump for joy and say, "Shut up! I've been itching to do that for a long time!" If she asks why, tell her you need a new image and that you're sick of seeing yourself look like a loser, and be a loser. But of course, it's not only your appearance that needs a makeover. You need to change that loser attitude of yours! You'll never get anywhere with that attitude of yours!

By the way, asking for someone's phone number is not creepy or weird. It is the first step in socializing, or in dating. At least I think so...I wouldn't know, I've never asked for someone's phone number because I wanted to date them or be something with them. I've only asked for phone numbers for convenience's sake, for school purposes and the like.

Wow. Sabbath, is that really you?

Herme...she said it all. You should listen to her...err...put into mind the things she just wrote.

Communication is a very important part of making that "bond". Like with me and my 9 year old friendship with a guy. No, I'm not in love with him or any of that mushy stuff...we are still friends up until now even though we weren't in the same section since my 2nd yr of high school. He is now in a college that is far from where I am. And we still communicate...I think it is in this span of time that our friendship will grow stronger. Same as your situation herme. You should do what we told you to...talk to her...send her a message through your mobile phone, or e-mail her...call her. Spend as much time as you can with her while school is not yet over. I'm sure it won't be hard to communicate with her if you are comfortable with her and she comfortable with you...that her being reluctant, to show others that you are friends, is no more.

I suppose changing the way you are won't hurt. But as what sabbath said so...if you do not want to change, then don't. But if you do, do your best! Make sure you change for the sake of yourself. Change because you want to be a better person, change because that change is the real you.

May happiness come your way!

Just wondering herme3' date='

When did you first ask a girl out?

 

You do not have to answer.[/quote']

 

I think it's his first time.