Clara

Hi Mike90. When you are in a relationship, you should never feel like you are in the relationship just for the benefit of the other person. I think that the most important part of a relationship is that both people are happy. The guy should try to make the girl happy, and the girl should try to make the guy happy. That does not mean that the guy or girl should change who they are just to make the other person happy. In a relationship, each person should like each other because of who they are. What I meant was that each person should care about the other person's feelings. If I had a boyfriend, and I knew he wasn't happy with the relationship, I would want to end the relationship even if I did love him. I would end the relationship for him, because I cared about him. Also, when a relationship ends I think it is important for the two people to become friends again. This will normally help take away the pain of a breakup. The worst possible thing is when people breakup and then start saying mean things about each other. This will only make the breakup feel much more painful for both people. Sometimes a breakup is too painful, and it's impossible to become friends again. I can understand this, but they should never try to hurt each other's feelings after a breakup. Sorry, but you are going to need to use your imagination if you want to guess what I look like. I like talking in forums because people judge other people by their personality, and not the way they look. Ok, I'll give everyone a hint. I'm not a pink hedgehog... Hi Coquina. I agree with everything you just said. Sometimes a relationship can't start immediately. If you find someone that you like, just talk to them a little at a time. After a while, you will get to know each other, and be able to talk more. I agree. I don't think a girl or guy should go around looking for a relationship. I think you should wait until you find someone you like, not the first person you can find. I know exactly how you feel. I think it is really difficult for someone to judge their own beauty. Both of these statements are very true. There are nice girls and mean girls. There are also nice guys and mean guys. I think the reasons people get into relationships depends on the type of person, not their age. I'm 17, but I've never been in a relationship. I don't want to get in a relationship just because all of my friends are. I want to find the right person. I also know some people that are over 25 that would look for a relationship, and not care if it lasts.

Wow... I can't believe how many people here are single and lonely. Sometimes, I think I'm the only 17 year old girl that's still single, but I guess that's not true. I don't really know why I'm still single. Guys really seem to like me, but most of them don't seem to care about my personality. I guess most guys are like that. If you know a guy that has a girlfriend, ask him to describe his girlfriend. He will probably say something like, "She's hot" or something like that... I guess I want to find a guy that cares about my feelings and personality too. When I look in the mirror, I wouldn't call myself a "hot girl". However, lots of guys say I'm really hot and everything. Anyway, if I am a "hot girl", my personality is probably the complete opposite of what you described. I'm sure that you can find a girl that you think is beautiful, and a nice person. You can never judge a person's personality just by looking at them. Don't worry about being shy, or quiet. If a girl doesn't want to take the time to get to know who you really are, then she isn't worth your time. Don't let anyone change who you are. I'm sure that you can find the right person, and she will not try to change you. Aww... That's sad. I can only imagine how you must feel right now. Don't give up or blame yourself. Living in the wilderness is not going to make you feel better. You just need to find another person. I'm sure you will find the right person if you keep looking.

Hi Herme3. I read your poetry, and I like it. Your poetry is kinda sad, but it reminds me of my signature.

Hi everyone! I was just reading the "Hall Of Shame" thread, and I was thinking it would be nice to have a "Hall Of Good People". I think you should post the names of people that seem really intelligent, or have been good friends to you. I really haven't made any friends here yet, but I was talking to Radiohead, Yourdadonapogos, and Lenale in the chatroom. They all seem like really nice people.

Hi Mike90. Yeah, my sig does describe my feelings. I'm known as a "popular girl" but sometimes I feel like nobody really knows me. I know it sounds kinda strange, but I think a lot of people probably feel the same way.

Sorry, but you act like a little kid! I'm sure that everyone else that is 17 years old uses deodorant.

Oh dear... Yes, I do know ChewyPoop in real life, but he is NOT my boyfriend! He tries to embarrass me in front of my friends by saying he is my boyfriend. I don't like to say mean things about people, but ChewyPoop doesn't even use deodorant!

Ok, thanks! I'll check back sometime.

Hi everybody! I just noticed that this site has a chatroom. I went into the chatroom, and I saw about 15 people online. I typed a message, and pressed Enter. My message showed up in the chatroom, but nobody said anything. I waited about 10 minutes, and nothing happened. Did anybody see my message, or did I do something wrong?

The orb pictures could be anything that some of you suggested. What do you all think about herme3's first picture? That's the one I think is interesting:

Hi Yourdadonapogos. In this forum, I don't think anyone should judge anyone's personal beliefs. I hope you can forgive me for saying this, but I think it is kinda sad that you said such mean things to a large group of people because of their own beliefs. I'm not saying I'm a creationist, and I'm also not saying I'm an atheist. I just want to say that people have their own personal beliefs. I'm sure everyone has their reasons for their beliefs. You don't need to believe anything you don't want to. But you shouldn't be mean to anyone, or say their beliefs are wrong because you don't understand them. I would hate to see anyone criticize you for your own beliefs. I just hope you can feel the same way about other people, including creationists.

Yeah, I don't think forums should make anyone say what their real name is. If someone doesn't want anyone to know, that's ok. I personally like my real name. I think Clara is a pretty name, but not very many people have it. I don't really know anyone else with my name, but if I'm sure there are others out there. I actually hate it when people just call other people by their last name. Last names are usually kinda boring, and sometimes a little silly. Using first names seems friendly to me, but I call people whatever they want to be called. Yeah, I think the avatars are a great way to express your personality. I think Amy is really cool. She isn't one of those girls that get in trouble, and wait for some guy to save her. She usually likes to be independent, and take care of the bad guys by herself. Some people say that Samus is cooler, but I don't think so. Samus doesn't really have much of a personality. Amy has a strong personality, and she also really cares about other people and animals. I think she is a good example of how people should be. I also think the signatures are a good way to express your personality. Mine may seem a little strange, but it kinda says what type of a person I really am.

Hi everyone! How come most people don't call each other by their first names on the Internet? I guess people have to worry about privacy and everything, but I don't think it could hurt anything to know our first names. There are probably hundreds or thousands of other people with the same first name as you. I think it sounds kinda weird calling people by their usernames. I would never let anyone know my real identity, but nobody would know if they only knew my first name. My first name is Clara, but you probably already knew that somehow...

Thanks. I did download ZoneAlarm. Is Linux safer than using Windows with ZoneAlarm? I've never had any viruses or anything like that.