Hmmm... I am not sure what you misunderstood.

 

I mean that I have no problem with gay men being in a communal shower, at say the gym. This must happen all the time without me knowing.

 

I would also have no problem with having mixed gender communal nudity. This doesn't really happen with showers in my country since women have separate changing/showering areas. But it wouldn't bother me. In fact, when in Europe, I sometimes share a communal sauna with completely naked women, and have no embarrassment or discomfort.

 

I would have an issue with either case though, if the activity was not happening in a public space. For example, if I had a sauna at home (I don't), I think I would be uncomfortable sharing it with a naked gay friend or a naked woman (other than my wife). I have no logical reasoning as to why this would make me uncomfortable, but I think it would.

 

Ah, thank you for explaining your post.

I agree with you, i do not mind showering with same sex people even if they are gay. I just don't want to know about it. I however would probably be embarrassed to share a communal shower with women, simply because of how i was raised.

I'm not even comfortable showering with myself.