Hi Everyone, I was adopted at 8 weeks old and wasnt told i was adopted until I was 16 years old:doh: From an early age I felt different to my adopted faimly. I loved them and never doubted I was their son. All the time I never quite fitted in like a square peg in a round hole. Also this showed itself in a physiclal form. I soiled myself and wet the bed until I was teenager. It ws my interest in girls which made my bowels take control. Does anyone have any opions on this.

I'm not sure about what you're asking my opinion on. My opinion on your circumstances would be meaningless. Are you asking if your reasoning regarding why you stopped wetting and soiling the bed are psychologically sound? Or are you asking if nature predisposed you to feel different from the family that nurtured you because of the genetic separation of being adopted?