Taco Bell

Sorry,

Its just this dumb problem that suck so much I wish everything normal! I've been suffering so long, I can't take it any more!

This is absolutely ridiculous.

It is absolutely ridiculous!

Does your church have a youth group that you could join?

Taco Bell, I would talk to your pastor and see if he can help you with this, that you don't want to be isolated for the rest of your life.

The closest thing to that is pushing my parent to take out they trash, checking or going in the pool, and getting the mail by myself(its all little farther then it seems because I live in a condo). Then maybe I could take further advances like taking a walk to the library or around the block. I just wish there was an easier way, a less argumentative way. The hard thing is that everyone think I love staying inside and avoiding all social contact, also my brothers which I spend allot of time near do avoid social contact and don't really care about privacy and independence. My sister went though this when I was young so I don't remember to much of the valuable information, and I wish I had.

So, What exactly is stopping you from leaving the house and going to meet her, or anyone else?

it sounds like fear of what your parents will do to stop you. but really what do you have to be afraid of? you are too young for them to evict you from the house legally.

sure' date=' they'll probably be mad at you but you'll probably make some friends that will help you deal with it if its a problem for you.[/quote']When there yelling or what ever they will do, there is no escape no door to close no room of my own to go to no refuge.

 

and, seeing as they are religious, the excuse, 'i went to meet a friend from sunday school' will probably lessen any anger they do have.

This is kind of good idea except I need to drive there(her house) even from class.

 

 

What ever I do it will still relying heavy on my parents(transportation, probably not money). I was thinking something that involves small to moderate size steps in which my parent do not get mad and or angry at me.

what exactly do you do in your free time? I think you mentioned lying around on your bed with an ipod...but seriously?

Get outta the house more!

 

I can almost guarantee you that if a girl asks about what you do for fun' date=' and all you can come up with is the above...

 

There are other nice benefits too. Like getting to meet people. And having fun.

 

A part of me finds it funny that you came here for help[/quote']

If I could I would.

I know.

If I could I would.

These people(scienceforums.net) helped me in the past.

 

Other people, trustworthy and untrustworthy, will always be around. That's just life. Ultimately, it is the role of your parents to equip you live in that life[/b'], not to teach you to hide from it.

And there not doing that, thats a little bit of the problem(actually a pretty big part).

I'm 15 1/2 years old and the girl is not problem I'm all most definite that she likes me. It is very difficult writing this, I'm change windows second and typing words when I can.

Tell your parents that they are overprotective and that you need some freedom. If they don't want to talk about it, run away from home for a few days. Be sure to mention why you ran away when you get found. That will definitely give them something to talk about.

 

Above advice is highly dependent on age. But if you are in your teens and your parents won't let you out of the house, you need to do something about it. Seems like they're crossing the line between being overprotective and abusively controlling.

This is a bit much. I still love them and they think I am responsible and I am. I haven't talk about it(the freedom to go out side) but I did i know they would say, "We trust you, its other people we don't trust" and I agree with that to a degree but my parent take it over the top.

If you and your girl get webcams, you can video conference with each other over the internet.

 

I hate to impose my views on your family, but have you actually tried talking with your parents about it? They may be more accepting than you are giving them credit for.

First of all I ask a question and you are answer so your not imposing.

I thought about that I don't have my own room and my brothers would just say "what the heck are you talking to the loser jerks from your class for". Usually, I would not care but we live in such confinement that there is no where to go except the bathroom or to lay on my bad and face the wall with my ipod.

And its not like being there

webcam what?

Can someone help me with a big problem? There is this girl(that I like very much:rolleyes:) and and she live about twelve miles away in the beverly hills(but that not the problem). I meet her every other week for two hour for sunday school. I'm home school so I rarely see other people I'm age so I feel that I have to react. My parent aren't over protective there super mega over protective and think I reject all social interaction and saying I like a girl would be unheard of. I don't really get out at all(not by choice) except when my parent want me to go with them and I found that even taking out the trash by my self once and while seem to feel relieving. I always acted like everything was all right so my parent are sort of oblivious but I do try and some big hints. I also have two brothers(that sleep in the same room as me in a very small house) that do reject all social interaction and one is eighteen and never said a thing about a girl. I also have a sister that is 22 and figured out have to deify my parent grip and might be a valuable asset.

So with all that explained can someone find a relatively painless solution that will allow me to see this girl more?