Is it possible to anaylse the physical causes of infatuation from self-analysis?
Maybe the psychological drivers but I"m not so sure about the physical drivers (although maybe the physical consequences).
I tend to lean towards the need to be loved and have self-validation from another often leads us to being infatuated; or it could just be the thrill of the chase.
Having noted that though, I query the "realness" of the internet. My experience of it tends to be either for sexual hookups or for daydreaming of the possibilities. Then, again, having noted that - "love", as I understand, is a different concept from "physical attraction" and the internet (ie the "falling in love without meeting") may provide evidence that "lust" and "love" are different things and that it's possible to "love" someone totally without there being that initial "lust" "night-club" factor.
Although does that unconfuse things?
Oh, and how did coffee go?
