Jump to content


Senior Members
  • Posts

  • Joined

  • Last visited

Everything posted by Novalocity

  1. True but rumination is normally classified as overthinking which can have negative outcomes both internally and externally. Rumination is usually accompanied by abstract autobiography memory. Thus, the negative effect caused by concrete thinking influences problem processing and solving and may eventually cause psychological discomfort
  2. I have been reading articles about rumination and was wanting to hear whether it is possible to have positive effects from rumination. I definitely like to mull over the negative until it is all I can see, but socially I have been very successful thanks to this. Thoughts?
  3. I think you misunderstand my relationship with my Father. We hate each other.
  4. I've told my Father before, he just says to figure it out.
  5. I have learned from the negativity, but I have also come to realize that I have learned enough from it and would like to feel some positivity in my life.
  6. I constantly give to others, exercise, meditate, diet, and get 9 hours of sleep a night. The only thing I don't have is good people and gratitude. I do appreciate this post though.
  7. What actual help? I have been given nothing in terms of advice. Excluding "it's your choice" So just continue waiting for happiness? 18+ years isn't enough yet? I'm not looking for total happiness, just a moment.
  8. This is my decision, I'm asking for actual help not just being told its all on me. Because when I try to fix the issue it doesn't fix.
  9. I drive to school so I can't use that bus metaphor, and I don't get angry I remain dull. It's one constant emotion.
  10. What? I'm asking for advice. This isn't a game, this is my life and I truthfully have no idea what to do. Advice such as "It's your choice" is not helpful. I have made changes to try and affect my negativity, but still every day I wake up full of negativity.
  11. This entire conversation has proven that it's not my choice.
  12. No, I'm saying the emotions I feel are negative that's why I don't accept them and instead search for ways to change my daily emotions.
  13. I don't know how to change how I naturally feel daily.
  14. I made it apparent that music is a large part of my life from the beginning. I write lyrics every day because it is a proper escape from my daily disdain and helps me with my mental regression of negativity, I thought I was more clear about the fact that my entire life is only Music and Military.
  15. Music is the only thing that helps me fight the misery. I can escape into the lyrics.
  16. An icon for teenage rebellion? Just because I want to pursue music?
  17. I am going to college for music engineering, and music business. I have it planned to live with my friend near my college in a house because he has saved money and so have I, also I get $10,000 after AIT. That will be a nice add-on to the start of my individual life away from home.
  18. I have no choice at the moment because I am still in high school and live in his house. I don't have enough money to move out until next August when I get $10,000 from the military.
  19. I have nobody else to turn to and I figured on a website such as this one the individuals involved would be able to understand more clearly the issue, but I guess I had just overestimated the abilities of others. Everything suggested so far has been attempted countless times. See, what my Father does is not the normal parental restriction that I take as some sort of exaggerated super control. It is pure over control over me, it isn't for some better purpose. He does not show any signs of some motive to improve my well being. He is actually specifically just making my life harder. There is no talking with him, I know because I've tried many times. I am aware it is easier to evaluate other's issues that is why I brought it to the online world for advising that I can't provide for myself. Myself.
  20. The feeling that someone or something is unworthy of one's consideration or respect; contempt.
  21. The whole point is my choices are not causing changes.
  • Create New...

Important Information

We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue.