ColinJC

My name is Colin, I do not wish to reveal my identity as my personality would be exploited but as you guys are mostly morons haha in a kind of nice way.. i thought i drop the coin for you all. I am unable to tell a lie no matter how hard i try and i have tried many times though not to deceive or trick anyone it just doesn't work. Yes i admit i have a condition, i have several but conditions are only what others consider different from the norm. I am basically saying everyone is wrong and i am right. Well from my prospective this is true however i have enough intelligence to know that it can never be possible to be right at everything but again i always stride to be near perfect for if i am perfect then i am wrong (If you understand what that means then you know more than you think or less than you know). I believe the "Condition" is learned and i think i know when it happened to me. My Mother and Father where very intelligent and taught us kids (3) to have deep thoughts and consideration to all life, thoughts and items in our care and others outside the zone. Only a poor intellectual person will assume that liars are intelligent for many reasons but lets assume what was said within this site. .. Yes it may seam like a lie will get you what you want if applied correctly and may be considered to be intelligence. In fact there is nothing wrong with that and it is a level of intelligence. Deception. To deceive a person and or even thing takes a devious mind and inside a devious mind the being will delude themselves depending on how elaborate the deception is and intended and very likely will believe most they think to be true and honest. But lets think about all of this.. You lie to get what you want and you achieve your goal, Yes that is quite intelligent. You may have the overhand of the other person and the comfort within yourself attached to your greed with satisfaction BUT you lost the true Empathy of caring for the other. Empathy and Compassion is a beautiful gift that keeps giving in both directions, Greed is taking, Selfish and Counter Productive to building relationships with others. Now lets look at it in a different way and this is a far better sign of intelligence... You know that making someone happy will get what you want and your own way... Do this instead... Make the other person Feel Happy knowing that what they have given you has made you happy by there choice and then you will feel solemn knowing that you not only made the other person happy but you raised yourself above and your intelligence ego gained a boost.. Hey if you have an Ego then you did something wrong.. The word should have been "Well Being". Back to where i started. I find that i cant tell a lie even when i try and think about it and plan it in my head / mind... when my mouth starts to speak its a bit like turret’s in that i am thinking about what i want to say but my mouth tells the truth and then admits i tried to lie lol Embarrassing to strangers but my friends know what i am like. The "condition" is very good with friends that know about it but can be distressful to them and me when they are strangers and don't know me. It is a "condition" i would never give up as it helps to build very fast trust and weed out fakes and users. Now that’s a different story! Being truthful to the soul of myself over proves to me that i am a good and kind person even if i do get used from time to time and even with my abilities to avoid most of that. Even when i do get bumped i think to myself ... I am a happy person and still happy though i feel sorry for the other person as they are missing so much in life not knowing what it is like to be true and i would also say pure. For those that know about the Balance, Gaia, Karma, Buddhism, Spiritism, One with all, Harmony and the 7 Levels will understand where i am attempting to go with this however that’s a different library, book, chapter and verse. I am happy to chat about this more in depth but i feel that i need to be shallow in this forum lol .. no offence intended and not even to the stupid guy (You know who you are lol) A Thought: If we are of starstoft from the stars and we are the one then togetherness in diversity with all then lying to another is basically lying to yourself and what is the point of that ! Karma is a great factor in treating others with honesty and respect as if binds with your body and emotions and as emotions adjust pheromone levels that others pick up upon and then in turn feel no threat and encouraged to be kind back but that is a bit complicated to explain in here as i would fill all the capacity of the forum on the topic. Basically what goes around determines what comes around but it is actually the other way around. Like lightning does not strike the ground the ground attracts the lightning and as ground and earth in electricity is a Mass and Electrons are an item that attract to the mass and as electricity is drawn and not pushed in a circuit. Regarding Marriage, Yes it is great when the truth is known and your partner can not lie but it can backfire too. However the intelligent partner shout teach the partner his or her ways and how to learn to learn and love the partner. It is not possible then i sadly say you have a partner that can not communicate and will end up in a failed partnership or marriage. I Liked the members remark the most as i have a clear answer to help everyone in any relationship. Relationships and Partnerships thrive on good communications and fail on the lack of it. I figured out when i was about 5 for sure that there is an element in relationships that contribute to near 100% breakups. Yep it happened to our family but i got in the middle and tried to mediate Yes i was 5. My Father and Mother where very intelligent and perfect with us kids but always fight each other... You may say that they where too alike and conflicted. Yes this was also true but what broke them was the inability to speak out and communicate about those nitty gritty everyday stuff, like... i don’t like the toilet seat open or the clothes on the floor etc.. Microbes of issues build up and always end up in an eruption and fallout and neither of the partners know where it even came from. Simple... The partner knows that you don’t lie.... Right!!! Darling you smell a bit, please the knickers on the floor bug me as the kids keep using as hat (Sorry that was not called for but my point..) But being open and honest with the things that bug us help the other to learn what he or she likes and improve attitudes along with knowing what my partner does like and really likes and then the sex life is good too. Lying is a form of Greed, Honesty is a form of Giving, Jealousy if the form of mistrust and lack of communication. Without being rude... When you make love to the partner you are in true love with (Your Soulmate not your Flossie... hmm) Then give rather than take that means satisfy her or him before yourself and let her or him do likewise. You have to be able to give as well as let be given too. I have a hard time with that but i am learning to let my partner give though i am quite good nether the less. If you cant get on with these things then i don't recommend going deep into a relationship as you are likely to both get hurt. And more than anything, a failure will hurt a long time and probably interfere with a future relationship and feelings. I made so many spelling mistakes as i am about to publish this message i am going to cheat and spellcheck it.. Hmm i cant believe i just told you all that lol. (23 Miss spelling mostly to do with ie and ei and 2 erroneous mistypes.) “Does my Bum look big in this ?” , my reply though never happens.. “Darling, I married you only because of your luscious bum and its my Bum but I also love your Face and everything else”, “By the Way Darling your skirt it tucked into your knickers, let me adjust for you” Protecting her modesty. I had to adjust things for my Friends that are Girls and they trust me. I lost my partner and am single for any other that can never lie but that would still be a challenge. All I ask is good communications and anything can work. Tell Her or Even Him if that’s the case.. Your Bum is Always Huge when my eyes delight catches it and it is a beautiful feature, draw attention to your own bum and compare if you would. Continue with other compliments like your Lips are large and soft luscious like a ripe strawberry.. NO Bad thoughts naughty look at her eyes when you say this.. Hmm Getting too Psychic in here. There is actually. If a partner cant communicate then they have no way to trust you or partner / s so best is to tell her the truth and make sure she knows that you are truthful and that’s the only way you are. When she asks you if her Bum (BUM) is big then tell her the truth. Yes Honey Your Bum is HUGE but that’s the way I like it B.A.B.E. Honestly she wont ask that as she will only ask if she lacks confidence within herself or over conscience of her existence. If that is the case then she will need support. It is also another sign that she may not trust you especially if she then gets upset with your opinion / answer. Someone that trusts you will accept your answer yet will respect your output. Does some Nice Honest Person that has the same "Condition" as me like to become my friend ? She may become more than that. He can be a good friend, It is what i will always love, being a Rock, Tree or Earth. and myself for being a good lifeform.