I think that before we either accept or reject a set of passages in scripture and offer commentary, it's important to understand to the best of our ability what it is those passages are actually trying to convey. Sometimes building a historical, cultural and circumstantial context can provide some insight. Just curious, did you finish reading Paul's letters?  I know you said that 1 Corinthians was next on your list, but did you finish reading beyond that?  Because it seems to me that you ma