Please ponder an electron, propagating towards a proton. Now, "before the electron reaches the proton", the electron's incident wave-function will not appreciably over-lap, with any of the potentially available bound hydrogenic states. And "after the electron has been there and gone", the electron's scattered wave-function will not appreciably over-lap, with any of those bound states, either. However, "in between", when the wave-function of the electron has "enveloped" the proton, i.e. as the electron is "on top of" the proton; then the over-lap integrals will be non-zero.
To make an investment analogy, each available bound H state, could be likened, to a "stock". And, the spectrum, of available bound H states, could be likened, to a "portfolio of stocks". Now, as the electron impinges upon the proton, the "stocks" in its "portfolio" will, at first, "rise in value". Then, as the electron scatters away from the proton, those "stocks" will "fall in value".
Is it not true, that the electron does not directly "perceive" the proton, but only the "virtual photons" emanated by the proton,
i.e. the proton's electrical potential well ?? And so, is it not true, that the electron's
only possible "perception", of its "interaction", with the proton, would be its "stock values", in its "investment portfolio" ?? And so, are not those "stock values", qualitatively visualized, in the following figure, the
only possible information, which could possibly "trigger" a wave-function "collapse", of the electron, into some captured, bound, H state,
i.e. a QM detection / measurement / observation ?? If so, then something, seemingly, must happen, between "the stocks are all making money", and "the stocks are all losing money", to trigger the "selling off of some stocks", and the "buying more of (one) other stock" ??
I want to ask, if wave-function "collapse" is, ultimately, a smooth & gradual process,
via which a wave-function is "con-formed" into a "desired shape"; then would that immediately imply, that the "collapse" process, involves a "positive feedback" process,
via which the electron (say) "perceives an error", between its current wave-function; and a "desired" bound H (say) wave-function ?? I want to ask, what
other known physical process, besides feed-back control, can "conform" things, into "desired" homeostases ?? Would not the electron (say) need to "perceive" the "wave-function discrepancy"

, as some sort of "phantom potential" in the SWE, which "drives" the electron into the "desired" distribution,
i.e. "shoves the electron into shape" ?? Perhaps there are published articles, detailing such scenarios ??