ewmon said:
If I'm trying to "prove" anything, it's that those three terms are inadequate and archaic...even delusional. They only serve an attempt by some people to squash all humans into 3 predefined narrow static categories based solely on behavior.
As a convenience in the thread, I referred to myself as "homosexual" since the OP used that antiquated term to frame his points. I was quickly informed that no, I couldn't be a "homosexual" because I had in the past engaged in intercourse with women, therefore I was actually a "bisexual". As if anyone could possibly make that determination for me...and never mind that sizable chunks of both hetero and homo identified people have had and do have sex outside of their "identity". Being a gay man who has and may again have sex with women violates the psychic order of those who find comfort in pegging people into one of those three narrow boxes - but I'll be the one who defines myself.
I'm not alone in this view. In the psycho/social services sector, the term MSM is now used in safer sex outreach in order to connect with a huge population of men who identify and primarily function as hetero but that engage in sex with men in varying degrees of frequency. These men don't identify as bisexual or gay. Should we try to stuff these people into one of those three boxes according to archaic and rigid definitions that are based on sexual behavior? Or should we understand that affectional/sexual identity is more complex than purely sexual behavior?
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And, my point in general in the thread has been that if there is mental illness to be found related to whether someone reproduces or not, a more likely candidate for that diagnosis might be those who reproduce in a narcissistic vacuum with no clear understanding of why they do so, and with no regard for the ecological cost of that selfish, mindless act. There are 6.5 billion people on the planet currently, and the human population is projected to increase to 9.5 billion in the next 40ish years - at a time when the extinction rate of plants and living beings is 1000 times greater than the last major extinction event that took place 65 million years ago, and the resources of the world, including water, are becoming scarce. And yet, human reproduction is institutionalized and culturally enforced, and those who decline to reproduce are stigmatized, ridiculed, and even claimed to be mentally ill.
Gregory Bateson said:
"The major problems in the world are the result of the difference between the way nature works and the way people think".
I could make a pretty good case that poppin' babies to the point of threatening death to the ecosystem and all it's living beings (including humans) is an estrangement and alienation from the natural world that qualifies as a mental dysfunction bordering on psychosis.
This post has been edited by pink_trike: 9 May 2010 - 02:21 AM

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